Monday, February 22, 2010

itu haram.ini haram.

itu haram.ini haram.
ingat bende tu haram.
mane bley buat,haram!
ko ni mendekati haram! .
haramlah!
woi,haram!
haram jadah!hare!

bro, ingt, haram mengharamkan yang halal tau..

"Warning against playing with the word “haram

To conclude, we address the respectful scholars who tackle the word “haram” easily and set it free in their writings and fatwas that they should observe that Allah is watching over them in all that they say or do. They should also know that this word “haram” is very dangerous. It means that Allah’s Punishment is due on a certain act or saying, and should not be based upon guessing, whims, weak Hadiths, not even through an old book. It has to be supported by a clear, well-established text or valid consensus. If these last two are not found, then we revert the given act or saying to the original rule: "permissibility governing things". We do have a good example to follow from one of our earlier pious scholars. Imam Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: “It was not the habit of those who preceded us, the early pious Muslims, who set good example for the following generations, to say, 'This is halal, and this is haram. But, they would say, ‘I hate such-and-such, and maintain such-and-such, but as for halal and haram, this is what may be called inventing lies concerning Allah. Did not you hear Allah’s Statement that reads, 'Say: Have you considered what provision Allah has sent down for you, how you have made of it lawful and unlawful? Say: Has Allah permitted you, or do you invent a lie concerning Allah?” (Yunus: 59) For, the halal is what Allah and His Messenger made lawful, and the haram is what Allah and His Messenger made unlawful."

taken from
http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?pagename=IslamOnline-English-Ask_Scholar/FatwaE/FatwaE&cid=1119503544202

Couple haram.Couple mendekati zina.
Btol ke bro?Couple cane yg haram tu?
Sume couple sebelum kahwin haram ke?

Generalisation or perbezaan istilah fr me,
does not give us permission to say this and that haram easily.

I am not a scholar,
nor I am a pious.
I may be right.
I can be wrong too.
But I stick to the notion that playing with the word haram or using it sesuka hati
is indeed wrong.
Thank you, very much..

ps/this excerpt is taken on article regarding islam's stance on music, not couple.harap maklum.

4 comments:

  1. assalamalaikm...
    topik couple nih topik y cukup hangat...
    pada pndgn saya, couple mmg menjurus kpd zina wlaupon hanya zina kecil...spt zina hati..
    y kecil2 nilah lama-lama jdi zina besar..
    sbb tulah ada pndpt mengatakan couple ni haram...
    baguslah klau dalam bercouple kita boleh kawal diri tp selama mana kita mampu bertahan klau ianya berterusan???
    kalau benar kita ikhlas dgn psgn, ada cara lain y lebih baik, lebih molek untuk menunjukkan keikhlasan n penghargaan kita...
    jagalah batas pergaulanmu dari segala aspek semoga mendapat keredhaan-Nya...
    ~maaf klau ada kata2 sy y kurang menyenangkan saudara.ini hnyalah sekadar pndpt sy~

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  2. waalaikumsalam wbt saudara/saudari,

    terima kasih atas reply diatas!!!!
    sgt appreciate.huhu

    pertama2nya, sy tidak cukup mahir dlm bab agama.
    boleh jd pandangan sy salah.

    jgn risau, sy menghormati pndngn saudara/saudari!

    boleh elaborate sikit tentang zina hati ni mcm mane?

    "baguslah klau dalam bercouple kita boleh kawal diri tp selama mana kita mampu bertahan klau ianya berterusan???"

    tntang isu berterusan yang saudara/saudari bangkitkan, sy rasa kurang valid.

    syaitan akan cuba menggoda umat adam berterusan sampai kiamat, selama mana kita mampu bertahan kalau ianya berterusan?

    soalan sy tu valid x?

    kalau org bertunang, boleh elak dr zina hati ke?

    dan dalil ape yang kuat berkenaan zina hati ni.
    dan dalil ape yang kuat mengatakan couple haram?
    semua couple haram?or couple macam mane yg haram?

    sy x setuju dgn generalisation couple haram.
    sy respect iluvislam, suke je bukak website die.tp sy x setuju dgn beberapa artikel yang mana penulis letak hukum haram.
    saudara/saudari kate ade pendapat couple haram.
    boleh bagi link x utk pendapat dr scholar, bukan certain2 individu.thnx!

    sy juge nak tny,
    saudara/saudari dengar muzik x.
    nasyid pun muzik gak kan.thou ade pndapat bg,
    ade pendapat kate muzik tu haram.pendapat scholar lagi.try check kat islamonline.
    semua muzik tu haram ke?muzik yang macam mane haram?nasyid haram?

    kalau saudara/saudari dengar muzik sebelum ni,
    saudara/saudari sanggup x yah dengar ape jenis muzik pun langsung lepas ni?ade bnyk care lg yang lebih molek nak relax/hiburkan diri.

    ym id sy: slaughterer_01@yahoo.com.

    kalau saudara/saudari yakin couple haram or x elok or x molek, add lah sy, dan kite boleh bincang. sy org islam, dan sy yakin saudara/saudari org islam gak, dan org islam itu bersaudara, maka marilah kita menyelamatkan satu sama lain dari maksiat dan dosa.dan sy x nak jd org yang menghalalkan sesuatu yang haram.add lah sy!!

    terima kasih..
    dan kalau saudara/saudari kenal sy, boleh sy tahu siapa saudara/saudari?
    ape2 pun, add lah ye.
    dan ingt, im not a scholar, nor i am a pious person.just hope n wish to be.

    salam alayk
    ..=)...

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  3. amboi, marah nampak.. haha, ade org sound kau couple haram ke? huhu

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  4. huhu..

    KALAU nak marah, ade 2 sbb.
    frst, sbb ade org sound aku..(ni sbb ego je la)
    scnd, sbb org skang senang2 je ckp itu haram, ni haram.

    kalau x haram, ckp x haram. ade beza ckp ko x suke bende tu or ko ckp bende tu haram.
    x suke x bermakne bende tu haram.

    anonymous, beramboi2 ni mcm kenal je. tp x dpt teka. sape ea?

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